new book · Available Winter 2026
A modern guide to becoming the grandparent every child remembers.
Being an unforgettable grandparent in today’s world takes more than good intentions. Don’t Skip the Party is the roadmap for grandparents ready to turn love into action.
“A must-read for boomers who want to buck the stereotype and show up.”
— Bess Kalb

About the book
The snacks are great. Your presence is better.
Being an unforgettable grandparent in today's world takes more than good intentions. It's about stocking their favorite cereal, saying yes to unplanned adventures, and turning an ordinary Tuesday into the story your grandkids will still be telling twenty years from now.
Most grandparents hope to be remembered that way. But between millennial parenting styles, changing family dynamics, busy schedules, and the distractions of modern life, showing up isn't always as simple as it sounds.
Don't Skip the Party is the roadmap for grandparents who are ready to turn love into action. Drawing on family science, cross-cultural wisdom, and real stories from parents and grandparents figuring it out in real time, Emily Thompson shares how to navigate family tension, respect changing parenting norms, create traditions that stick, and become the grandparent everyone begs to visit.
Early praise
“A must-read for boomers who want to buck the stereotype and show up.”
“My friends and I are always talking about how to be the ‘cool mother-in-law’ — the one who everyone always wants to come home to. Now, we don't have to wonder. Emily just wrote the guide for us.”
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