Available Winter 2026
A modern guide to becoming the grandparent every child remembers.
Don’t Skip the Party is the roadmap for grandparents ready to turn love into action.
Written for grandparents and parents alike.

About the book
The snacks are great. Your presence is better.
The grandparents kids remember are the ones who stock their favorite cereal, say yes to unplanned adventures, and turn an ordinary Tuesday into the story they'll still be telling twenty years from now.
Most grandparents hope to be remembered that way. But between millennial parenting styles, changing family dynamics, busy schedules, and the distractions of modern life, showing up isn't always as simple as it sounds.
Drawing on family science, cross-cultural wisdom, and real stories from parents and grandparents figuring it out in real time, Emily Thompson shares how to navigate family tension, respect changing parenting norms, create traditions that stick, and become the grandparent everyone begs to visit.
Early praise
“A must-read for boomers who want to buck the stereotype and show up.”
“My friends and I are always talking about how to be the ‘cool mother-in-law’ — the one who everyone always wants to come home to. Now, we don't have to wonder. Emily just wrote the guide for us.”
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